Sunday, July 11, 2010

Never Work With Someone Who Does Not Believe In You


It is so difficult to live up to the expectations of other people. It seems like that you are going through the hoop in order to please them. The expectations are too high, it seems to be an unreachable and an impossible task. They often focus on the things you are doing wrong rather than the thing you have done right. Your decisions and every move is too calculated because you are too afraid to make mistakes, it seems like that you are walking on thin ice or walking on soft egg shells that it might break anytime. If you have experienced or are experiencing this situation, you are not alone.

One thing I learned in life is to work with people who sincerely believes in you. Look for a group of people who will look at your potential rather than your failures. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you not discourage you. People who will inspire hope and not steal your dreams away from you. You are created for greatness and live out your dreams. Never allow people to treat you like a rag, they will only use you and when you are not anymore useful they will just dump you into the trash bin.

Let us find the place and the people who will accept us for who we are and not because of what we can do for them and not because of what we can become!

3 comments:

steffi said...

you're right sir chinkee. as they said in the eyes of the many people we encounter we were just like ball pens. they will use you everyday until such time that when you lose all your ink, they'll just throw you away or if you fall down once you will be automatically regarded as nothing.

cathy ocampo said...

Hi good morning sir chinkee,

thank you so much for the Lord touched your life and now you have touched the lives of so many people, your truely a grace from our Lord God. I have never felt hunger for the word of God until now....Thank you for the wisdom that the Lord has given you and shared to everyone. I have experienced everything you have uttered in your blog and have known the difference. I am greatful to the Lord that he awakens me and continues to bless me. More Godly power unto you sir mabuhay ka.....

Drako Berhen said...

Going out in the real world is a toughie but what you're pointing out here is a Cinderella story. The real world is vicious and will eat those who are weak willed. People need to adjust not continously seek what's non-existent. There is no perfect work place but there are people who adjust to make it perfect.